I am sad that you (OP) do not like flamenco - I love the music & the dance, although I was brought up by a Spanish mother who hated it, as well as gypsies.
There are many styles of flamenco, & the one I most love is the Martinete, for example the one below, if I am allowed to post the link?
Yet the lifestyle is not one I could embrace, with cruelty to animals, the horse fairs, the bull fighting.....not that one can really "convert" into being a gypsey, the flamenco families pass on their art to their children. It seems Gypsies are discriminated against by many middle class spaniards (though I have not been back in many years)
I love the raw, dark passion (& often humour!) of flamenco, although cante chico is not really my thing. BTW you have to tune your ear in to catch the flamenco slang.