I don't try to intentionally damage my guitars but I don't handle them like they are made of tissue paper either. If you are playing your guitar regularly, then stuff happens. I don't like it but I don't dwell on it either, I don't buy a guitar with resale in mind. Its a tool I use to frustrate myself with.... much like a golf club.... That being said I don't own any guitars that cost more than my car, I may have a different response if my guitars were $5 or $10K each..... Lucky for me, I'm not nearly good enough to spend that kind of money on a guitar.
Randy ( Big Bird, it's what my grandkids call me)
2015 ESTEVE 7SR - 650/52 Spruce/EIRW
2016 ESTEVE 8 - 650/52 Cedar/EIRW
2017 Yamaha SLG200NW